ok, this one oughta fuel some discussion...
i was once asked a question that i want to pose to the masses.
(masses read my blog, right? masses upon masses of you?)
ok here it is:
in choosing a spouse, if you could only have one or the other, would you rather be better looking or more intelligent than your other half?
food for thought, eh?
after much deliberation, i decided i'd rather be prettier than my husband than smarter than him.
don't get me wrong; i don't want to be with someone i feel dumb around. i think i've got enough going on upstairs to keep up with most guys ... but, i think it'd be really hard for me to know that i was signifcantly smarter than my husband. i'd rather have someone i can look up to in that regard, and who i can trust has the intelligence and grit to provide for me.
(you know, the ultimate answer to this question is that it's good just to be pretty equally matched all the way around....but that's not what this question is asking.)