last night i received a very important conference call,
from two friends with a ponderous question for me:
"what are the rules for a post-date text?"
i've actually had this discussion with other friends before.
should you text and say thank you after a date?
does it depend on if you had fun or not?
or is it just common courtesy?
or maybe an old-fashioned phone call the next day is the way to go?
and is it the boy's or the girl's job?
my take on it?
i've always thought, as a girl, that if the guy had planned the entire date, then i shouldn't be demanding that he keep doing all the initiating.
i personally only send the post-date text if i want to go out with the fella again.
of course i always say thank you in person, regardless of interest level.
but that post-date text...
to me that says, "i dig you and want to see you again."
what do YOU think?
this is definitely a millennial conversation,